How does one succeed in life?
09.06.2025 00:41
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Procrastinates a lot.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Do you wear tights for warmth or to make your legs look better?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Do other British people agree that the UK should reconquer Ireland?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Has your wife or girlfriend ever been felt up in public by a stranger?
What I need from you?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
What are the main issues that have historically and currently divided Republicans and Democrats?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Ask yourself:
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
If white people had been slaves, would WLM be a thing right now?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Does not procrastinate.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
That's it for today.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Making more friends is a goal.